I found that when I was blindfolded, I disliked it a lot – much like your thoughts. Afterwards with the blindfold as a potential punishment, I became much more willing to be compliant. That might be a bit of the undoing of the Banesuit is that your dom can’t punish you with it – at least that’s how I understand it works.

The blindfold is/was an at the moment punishment. I’ll go read your blog for more….

I can’t help but wonder what kind of slave I’ll be when I come out the other side.

FYI, the bloghud doesn’t let me post the kind of wordy posts I’d like, so I’m editing them later and adding a bunch of content. You can read all of my thoughts as they happen at http://sl-blogs.com/spikey

- Bane S-7986

I can relate to a similar experience. It seems I like to swap dom/sub sometimes and play around – okay – sue me. lol Anyhow I was in a playful mood and let a far more experienced friend of mine have my keys…

::sigh::

To cut to the chase, I spent about 9 hours of “game” time gagged and blindfolded in a dungeon. No IMs, no vision, and no chatting. Oh, and no clothes – I think. And due to the Restrained Life client, nothing I could do about it.

To some degree playing the sub is relaxing. Because you don’t have to make decisions any more. In fact, I find that part almost to be the most erotic. The catch of course is the dom is someone you trust and feel good about. If ignorance is bliss than being a full submissive is ecstasy. The biggest enemy of being a submissive seems to be boredom. Which is why, of course, subs are “naughty”, to stir the pot so to speak.

On the flip side, being the dom is a lot of work – at least to be a good one. It does have fringe benefits though.