One of the weirder things I have found playing the submissive part is that I kinda find being gagged to be fun.  I know, it sounds weird.  I can usually talk up a storm when I’m in the mood, but I find that playing the submissive and being gagged to be really quite a good match.  It’s like the chocolate sauce on the vanilla ice cream.  mmmmm… 

Part of the attraction of being a sub is the removal of decisions, and thus responsibility.  The gag just means you can’t complain about it anymore.  Combined with the Restrained Life client the Lulu gags are really the best.  You can still do some basic emotes, but you can’t IM and certainly not talk.  It makes for interesting conversations….

On the flip side, playing the dom with a gagged submissive is amusing too.  The sub can’t really complain about what’s going on, and there’s certainly no back talk.

I actually sought out being gagged.  My first experience with it was with Tiessa.  She was gagged for a few hours and I thought it was silly.  I thought it was silly for a long time, until I got the urge to try it.

In case you’re wondering….  The Lulu gags do have a mini game so to speak in them.  You can do a ‘trial’.  In the trial you must keep quite for a set amount of time to move into a new circle.  I’m sorta competitive, so it was like a challenge to meet.  I’m up to the Slave circle with my ball gag.  That’s 14 hours of online time, quiet.  I’ve been thinking of psyching myself to try the top First Slave circle, but as I recall it’s almost 30 hours.

I’d recommend to any submissive to try it out and at least make it to the Novice circle.  That’s two hours of being gagged.

In case you’re wondering, I don’t walk away - except for a few minutes now and then - while I’m doing a trial.  So, that’s 14 hours of real connected time.

I think that if I finished successfully the First Slave circle, the submissive part of me might be satiated for a while.  But maybe that’s a good thing because someone else might want to switch soon…  :)  But there is the leader board of gagged submissive’s at Lulu’s hideout.  Which in itself is a temptation to try to make.  Everyone should stop by there and see the board - you’ll be amazed.  :)  But maybe that’s a good thing because someone else might want to switch soon…  :)  What’s more amazing is that if the gag thinks you cheated or purpose or accident, you’re done.  The clock stops and you have to start over.

Some thing like:  “v/me looks at the wall”.  That typo costs you dearly.  Oh, and it knows if you’re cheating, “/me thinks about leaving.”  Pop - that’s cheating.  Give that bitch a spanking! 

-Veyron